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人類的對應方式主要由思想、情感以及其后的行動決定。
Your explanatory style largely determines your thoughts, emotions, and subsequent actions.
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與事情的好壞無關,感情的95%是由某事發生時如何接受而有所不同的。
Your explanatory style is defined as “the way you explain things to yourself.” Fully 95 percent of your emotions, positive or negative, are determined by the way you interpret the things that are happening around you, and by the way you talk to yourself.
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根據此邏輯,令人心情不好的事情是我們自己這樣認為的,令人心情好的事情最終也是我們自己這樣理解的。
Following this train of thought, bad things are bad and good things are good because we perceive them to be that way.
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問題的核心就是:消極情緒導致不圓滿的結果;積極情緒產生優秀的業績。
The heart of the matter is that a negative attitude leads to inadequate results, and maintaining a positive attitude yields superior results.
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這都取決于一個人的觀點。
It all comes down to one’s perspective